are not experiencing what God designed for marriage and family. Unfortunately, this is all too common in the homes of ministers who seek to lead and guide the churches of Jesus. Sin and confusion rob them of the delights and joys God planned for this sacred covenant relationship. Marital disharmony, fractured families, and broken lives are all around us. This is not how it should be. When the Bible addresses God’s expectations of anyone who leads His churches, two things are crystal clear. First,